What Kind of Rest Do You Actually Need?

We all know that rest is important, and that sleep plays a vital role in our overall health. It helps repair muscle tissue, regulate hormones, strengthen the immune system and lower blood pressure. However, sleep alone is not always enough to help us feel fully refreshed. To understand what true rest looks like, it's important to recognise the different types of rest and the various ways we can recharge and recover when we're feeling drained.

What type of rest is considered to be the best?

It is difficult to identify one type of rest as the definitive "best" because everyone’s needs are different. However, quality sleep is widely regarded as the most important form of physical rest. Quality sleep is about more than just the number of hours spent in bed. It also depends on how well you sleep. Some common indicators of good sleep quality include:

  • Falling asleep within 30 minutes of going to bed.
  • Waking up no more than once during the night.
  • Being able to fall back asleep within 20 minutes if you do wake up.
  • Waking up feeling refreshed, energised, and ready for the day.

What are the seven types of rest that everyone needs?

When we feel exhausted, sleep is often the first solution we think of. But according to Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, sleep alone may not be enough. If you're still feeling drained after a full night's rest, you could be lacking one of the seven types of rest:

  • Physical Rest: Sleep, naps, stretching, yoga, and gentle movement help your body recover.
  • Mental Rest: Meditation, journalling, or taking breaks can calm an overactive mind and improve focus.
  • Spiritual Rest: Connecting with a sense of purpose, meaning, or something bigger than yourself can help combat feelings of emptiness.
  • Sensory Rest: Reduce overstimulation by limiting screen time, dimming lights, and spending time in nature.
  • Creative Rest: Recharge your inspiration by enjoying art, music, nature, or other forms of beauty.
  • Emotional Rest: Process your feelings through journalling or honest conversations with trusted people.
  • Social Rest: Prioritise relationships that energise you and take breaks from interactions that leave you feeling drained

What are signs your body needs rest?

There are several signs that may indicate your body is fatigued and in need of rest:

 

Physical signs

  • Constant fatigue: Feeling tired or sleepy throughout the day, even after getting the recommended seven to nine hours of sleep.
  • Frequent illness: Catching colds or other minor infections more often than usual, which can be a sign that your immune system is under strain.
  • Body aches and pains: Experiencing muscle tightness, sore joints, or persistent headaches.
  • Elevated resting heart rate: Noticing that your resting heart rate is consistently higher than normal.

Mental and emotional signs

  • Brain fog: Struggling to concentrate, remember information, or complete everyday tasks.
  • Mood changes: Feeling more irritable, anxious, sad, or emotionally overwhelmed than usual.
  • Lack of motivation: Losing interest in hobbies, social activities, or work that you would normally enjoy.
  • Sleep difficulties: Finding it hard to fall asleep, stay asleep, or feeling restless throughout the night.

What actually counts as rest?

Rest is a state of reduced physical or mental activity that allows the body and mind to recover, restore energy, and recharge. While sleep and napping are considered forms of passive rest, active waking rest includes activities that promote relaxation and reduce physical, emotional, or sensory stress. Examples include taking a walk in nature, meditating, practising deep breathing, reading, or taking a break from screens and other sources of overstimulation.

How much rest do I actually need?

Most adults need seven to nine hours of sleep each night, along with one to two hours of time to relax and unwind during the day. If you exercise frequently or participate in intense training, you may also need one to three active recovery or full rest days each week, depending on the difficulty of your workout routine.

Is resting in bed as good as sleeping?

No. While lying quietly in bed with your eyes closed can help lower your heart rate, relax your muscles, and reduce stress, it does not replace the essential benefits of sleep, such as deep brain recovery, immune system support, and the body's natural repair processes.

If you find yourself unable to fall asleep after about 20 minutes, it can be helpful to get out of bed and do a quiet, relaxing activity in dim lighting, such as:

  • Reading a book
  • Listening to calming music
  • Practising gentle breathing exercises
  • Meditating
  • Leaving the bed when you're unable to sleep helps your brain associate your bed with sleep rather than stress or frustration.

About Heather Darwall-Smith

Heather Darwall-Smith is a UKCP-accredited psychotherapist specialising in sleep, and the author of The ADHD Sleep Book. Diagnosed with ADHD herself later in life, she knows first-hand what it’s like to live with a disco ball of a brain that refuses to switch off at night.

Heather Darwall-Smith